I have no reason to believe that we aren't failing.
Last week I was in the car with the girls and I heard Zoe exclaim for the back seat, "I'm so sick and tired of being so strong!" I then heard kissing noises and adjusted the rear-view mirror to find Zoe kissing her biceps repeatedly.
Lori signed the kids up for the kiddie marathon which coincides with the Illinois Marathon in a couple of weeks. When she told the kids this, Brennan got serious, then responded, "I'll probably get 2nd or 3rd. I mean, it's against all the other kids in town, right? Yeah, 2nd or 3rd."
Although, if we were failing, Brennan would have assumed 1st. And Zoe would have kissed her calf muscles. Right? Right? Good. Maybe we aren't failing after all.